Aquarius men, your input, insight, advice would be great too! Positive or negative, hit me!
I’ve recently in the last few months reunited with a childhood sweetheart ‘first love’ who is an Aquarius. We have completely fell in love in a way that we have never felt for another and plan to get married. I am a typical Cancer (with Leo influence) and I am trying to accept and respect his freedom-loving nature. All astrology compatibility charts are telling me to run, that I am going to be miserable, that he is going to get sick of my clingyness and once he ‘figures me out’ he won’t be interested anymore.. but I can’t just leave him because I really love him and how could I end something just because I have read all this information? And honestly, I am wondering if I am only questioning all of this because of all the research I have been doing. The reason why I have even done the research was because I have always done that with every relationship. It’s usually spot on and it always fascinates me. We both have been in a really long, bad relationship in the past; we are both single parents and we have a lot in common. We are crazy about each other and communicate very, very well. Despite how well our communication is, I just feel uncomfortable bringing this all up to him because I don’t want him to think I am ‘crazy’ (heh…) or think that I am having doubts about him. I have always avoided dating an Aquarius, even though they are wonderful and fascinating people, because I do understand that they are more ‘free spirited’ and ‘detached’ than usual and I on the other hand need constant reassurance of love. He does tell me every day how much he loves me and wants to be with me, but of course unless it’s 40 times a day, I feel a little less secure (I know… stupid and annoying). I am aware and conscious of his approach to love and am in no way expecting him to change those ways, so I am not driving myself crazy with insecurity as of yet. I told him how I am so that he wouldn’t be ‘surprised’ in the future and he said that he is sort of the same way. Which wouldn’t appear to be completely true, so I don’t know why he said that… ?? He is so good to me, so sweet to me and I am to him. I control my moods more often with him because I know that it’s the Cancerian in me that influences them and I do realize that I desire more attention than most people. I just want to know from people who have been in this situation; if love will prevail, or will we later just tire of each other’s ways? I am more worried about him tiring of me, as I would love (keyword) him no matter what and would always try to make it work. Any advice, besides locking me up in a padded room? If you don’t believe in astronomy at all, please don’t answer. I truly appreciate your personal views, but I am really hoping to have an opinion from someone who knows about astrology and who is going through or has gone through this particular situation…
Thanks in advance for your response…
Your question is WAAAYYYY too long for anyone to read, let alone answer. Shorten it up, skip some of that dreadful detail, and repost.
Your question is WAAAYYYY too long for anyone to read, let alone answer. Shorten it up, skip some of that dreadful detail, and repost.
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The relationship is doomed because you are not appreciating him (or yourself) for the people you actually are, and depending instead on bullshit that has nothing to do with either of you.
If you would even consider "running" based on astrology and not the real person he is and you are, and the way you feel about each other, then you don’t deserve to be in any relationship with a real life human. Not until you grow up a little.
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I love astrology and like to study it myself. However, I slowed down on it lately, because I find through experience that when there’s a will, there’s a way.
It’s called manifestation. New age stuff, apparently, since it’s quite a new concept in America while long been praticed with most major religion. It’s called "Have Faith" in yourself and your judgment.
Program your mind to believe. If you have a problem to believe, then perhaps, you should stop going with what the astrology is trying to tell you. You can’t have a long term relationship without trust.
Are you not trusting him because of the astrology reports or are you not trusting him due to his "fishy behaviour"?
Astrology is only a reference to help us grow. Personal power comes from within, not without.
Good luck.
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